 
				We 
                knew that you were going to be our last grandchild, so we were 
                going to absorb everything that we could and remember you so 
                very well.  You and your brother, Daniel, would be the last 
                two Helfrich grandchildren.  So, you both have that 
                distinction.  Julia and Amy, I picked out this background 
                especially for you, since you are the two youngest girls and 
                even though the others are much older, they will just have to 
                deal with it, right? 
					Julia, you were a mighty big baby too and exceptionally pretty.  
                We have really enjoyed going to your dance recitals, and you 
                have been such a star in all of them, but the one of you in your 
                rain coat was our favorite one.  That is why we put that 
                picture of you at the top.  And, we have come over to your 
                home on several Halloweens, and after scanning in some of  
                your Halloween pictures of you and Daniel, we decided to set up 
                a special Halloween page for you guys. I have enjoyed the tea parties in your bedroom too.  Your 
                mom and dad just redecorated it and it is beautiful.  It 
                just suits you to a "T".  The day they were decorating the 
                room, (in 2003) I came over and took you out to dinner for your 
                birthday while they were doing the work and then you could be 
                surprised when you got home, with the final result.  
                Remember, we went to Cracker Barrel and the manager came over 
                and asked if you were having a nice birthday dinner with your 
                Grammy?  Then, they came out and sang "Happy Birthday" to 
                you as everyone was applauding.  Then, when we went to buy 
                you something, and you liked one set of necklaces, but you put 
                it back and I told you to pick out what you wanted.  You 
                went and got the more inexpensive one and I asked you why you 
                did not get the other one.  You said because the other one 
                was more expensive.  To be only seven years old and be that 
                considerate was very sweet, I thought.  And, in addition to 
                that, you did not want to get something for yourself, even 
                though it was your birthday, without getting something for 
                Daniel.  So, you picked something out and took it to him.  
                That was so sweet and thoughtful. One of my memories was when we were over at your home recently 
                and I was rushing from the dining room to the kitchen and back 
                and forth doing the dishes and you said "Grammy, you don't have 
                to run so much."  I replied that I run like that so old age 
                will not catch up with me.  You looked at me as if you 
                wanted to ask "what in the world are you talking about, 
                Grammy?"   Another 
                memory was when you were up in Virginia visiting with Amy in 
                2003, and you called on the telephone and told us about what a 
                great time you were having up there and how much fun you and Amy 
                were having, apple picking, pumpkin patching, horseback riding, 
                etc.  I asked if you could put Amy in your suitcase and 
                bring her home with you, and you said "no, Grammy, I can't do 
                that."  Sometimes, I think you don't know what to make of 
                your Grammy, right? 
                Yet another memory that I think you 
                and Daniel will always hold onto is the fun you had when Grammy 
                picked you up in the car to go to dinner, and you two would sit 
                in the back seat.  You would ask Grammy to turn on the 
                "On-Star" button so you could get directions to the nearest 
                restaurant, or if you knew which one you wanted to go to, you 
                would tell them you wanted directions to Cracker Barrel or Steak 
                and Shake (or as you said, Julia - "Shake and Bake".)  
                Remember how the lady from On Star always told you that she 
                hoped you enjoyed your dinner when you got there?  But, 
                then Grammy had to go get a new car and it did not have On-Star 
                in it.  But, you can hold on tightly to those memories from 
                the 2001 Buick that Grammy took you out in. And, the most recent memory was the great time we had when you, 
                Daniel, your parents, Bow Wow and I went to Disney World in 
                December 2003.  That was a fun day,  even if you were 
                a bit hesitant about going into the haunted mansion.  That 
                was neat though, wasn't it?  And, then shortly after that, 
                Papa Chuck and I came over to spend the weekend with you and 
                Daniel and we went out to dinner at, as you call it, "Shake and 
                Bake," otherwise known as Steak & Shake.  Papa Chuck and I 
                hope you remember some of these fun times after you are all 
                grown up, which will come sooner than later.  Lots of kisses and hugs to you - Love ya. 
				
					 Grammy and Pa 
                Chuck - April 20, 2004  |